1. The Wannabe (Big Time Talker)
Some Men don’t know that, even though Women love confident guys, they always seem bored for Men who talk big, but have apparently, nothing to take them there.
Men should understand that Most women are appalled by men who talk a big game, when they know that they do not have the means to follow through with their big game talk.
It is certain that most woman have come across these types of guy standing at the bar, bragging intentionally-loud so that everyone can hear him. Or even worse, the guy who picks you up in a rented BMW, pretending he is the owner and faking everything.
This is the biggest Lie in Men dictionary, which most Men believes. Men do tend to believe that all women wants that “guy” with the biggest and the best of everything. This becomes a motive for those men to paint colorful and fictitious pictures of themselves.
But lets get back to the real life, women find this type of behavior in Men exhibiting it as disgusting and very childish. so instead of making themselves attractive, these guys become massive female turn-offs. No woman want to show up with a guy, who lies and try to pass himself as King, but in reality, is a slave to himself.
I will once again say this, Women love Men with Confidence, but not Narcissism. In the women world, some Ladies are lucky, while others get to experience the bad type of Men.
Some women get dinner and a movie with a guy. While some of the unlucky ones, get dinner and an earful of self-admiration when they go out on a date with a guy.
I don’t know how to drum this into Some Men brain, Men who waste women’s time by inviting them on dates so they can spend the evening glorifying themselves are truly a bore and are big turn to most Women.
Some Men will take you out for a date, and waste your precious time, bragging about his college GPA, stellar performance at work or investment ideas, and 99% times, their impression may not be anywhere near as impressive or intriguing as they think.
Men who fall into the category of those, who waste a woman’s time by inviting her out only to have someone to brag to are truly a bore and majorly don’t get a second date.
3. Preoccupation with $ex
Wow, Men should stop doing despicable things like this, Men who takes a Lady out on a date and is preoccupied with $ex, is most likely never to get a second chance with the Lady! Whether you’re on a first date or in a 10-year marriage, You should know straight ahead, that women don’t want to feel solely like $ex objects.
It is always Advisable by relationship expects, although this depends on the woman. When you’re into a new relationship, Men should try their best in holding off on sharing any $exually explicit stories (including past performances with ex) and comments, until he’s certain and 100% sure that the woman he’s with is up for it.
It is no longer a secret that Women want to be caressed, complimented and otherwise shown affection and intimacy outside the bedroom too.
4. Being Ignored
Turn-Offs for Women
I don’t know who hates this altitude the most, but the Ladies seems to be majorly turned off by guys, who usually ignore them.
One of the key ways most women judge how important they are in the life of their partner, is by how much attention they get from him when expressing concerns and opinions, during conversation, public discussion with friends and family, etc.
Women are usually and 99% of them are turned off when men act like other things are more important or more interesting than them. When a Man casually dismiss something that’s important to a woman, she takes note of that dismissal.
When men show interest in the beginning of a relationship, but then switch gears as things progress, a woman’s attraction for him often takes a dive too, and the relationship might not last long, once the woman knows she does not have your attention, or is not on top of your priority list.
5. Straight-Up Chauvinism
Well, this seems like a 1620 altitude and does not work for the 21st century Woman anymore. The path toward gender equality has improved a lot over the past several decades, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t still men who consider themselves the superior $ex.
Some of these Men who thinks they are superior, will for example, have a belittling title for every woman. The cashier is “Little lady.” The waitress is “Darling.” And the bartender is “Sweet Cheeks.”
Please take note, that whatever the chauvinist behavior you are exhibiting is, it always and 100% bulletproof, is a major turn-off for women.
6. Not Helping Out
This is not the A.D period where Men are Viking$, or the war era, where Men does not help out with the house chores. Wake Up! We are in the 21st century and things are heating Up.
Most women prefer to share the responsibilities of raising kids and running a household with their Husband. Since the vast majority of women work outside the home, this is more a necessity than anything else, so for you to ensure you have a successful relationship with your Wife, Spouse or Partner, please help out in the house.
It’s a real turn-off for a woman if a man’s notion of who handles child-rearing and household chores is stuck in the 1950s mentality. See the world around you, the chores in raising Children and house chores is now divided 50/50.
7. Ogling Other Women
Gosh, this is disastrous and have the magnitude to carpet bomb any growing relationship and uproot it. Men who stare at other women or are overly flirtatious with them may find themselves largely on their own,. No woman would want to date a Man, who is always ogling at other Women.’
Women find these types of Men as cheats and won’t want to have anything to do with them.
Simply put, women like men who are respectful enough to pretend they don’t notice other women (even when they do), especially when you are out with them.
8. Boorish Behavior
This is one characteristics which is a big turn off for the Women folks. Women always prefer a gentleman. A woman expects a man who’s interested in her to approach her thoughtfully and respectfully, without using those stupid and vulgar languages.
Any guy who wishes to date a lady, should make sure he checks the boorish behavior — using vulgar language, getting drunk or high, dominating conversations so no one else can get a word in, showboating — at the door, won’t get to date anyone, even his guys friend are bored and won’t even choose to hang out with these kind of characters.
9. Poor Grooming Habits and Bad Pickup Lines
We usually see these Basketball Players or other Sport athletes and grungy rock stars, looking sweaty and turning a woman on, and that is because, they aren’t closer to them. When they are closer to the body odors, which accompany them, it usually turn tot another story.
Beyond basic hygiene, there is some more which the women always want. Most men want sleek and gorgeous women, so it’s fair to assume, women don’t want men with pot bellies, dirty fingernails, rumpled clothes and disheveled hair, right?
To get women, you need to look healthy, sleek and clean! Always clean your fingernails, put on clean ironed cloths and make sure your barber is your friend.
Lastly, woman always appreciates men with a sense of humor. A sense of humor in a guy is bonus, which the women generally welcome.
When a guy is actually funny, he can make any lady laugh with his pickup lines. One thing some guys fail to understand, is that a good pickup line, will leave a woman with a lasting impression.
However, many guys have taken it too hard on themselves, and tried too hard (sometimes with offensive pickup lines), trying to impress a lady, and automatically, it becomes a turn off to the Lady.
Try and apply this tips Vice-Versa.